Why mindfulness and meditation helps7/5/2022 As a psychotherapist, I can get pushback when I suggest mindfulness and meditation. This is especially so when I suggest breathing exercises to my clients. 'Is that it?' they would say to me. 'I have been breathing my whole life, why do I need to set aside time to do more breathing?'. I must admit, when my own therapist suggested mindfulness and meditation, almost twenty years ago (before I became a therapist), I had the same reaction. The good news is that we now have the research to support what might once have seemed like smoke and mirrors. Studies show that levels of cortisol (the stress hormone) reduce after a course of mindfulness and meditation (including breathing exercises). It only takes a handful of minutes to do, so why not make this part of your morning ritual, so you can wake up to better mental health. I have some free mindfulness and meditation exercises on my website, so why not start with these? I hope you find this useful. According to Stanford Neuroscientist Dr Andrew Huberman, meditation and breathing exercises can help people to teach their nervous systems "to be comfortable in uncomfortable states" (Dr Andrew Huberman), putting their brain in an optimal state to function. The trouble is, so many say they don't have time to do this. However, research shows that the recommended 'dose' for meditation/breathing exercises is just 13 minutes a day. Check out Dr Huberman's fascinating video here. Too often we find an excuse to avoid making any changes, and the most common excuse is ‘I don’t have the time’. Stop procrastinating and use the new day for a new way of being. You can do this by getting up 10 minutes earlier than usual, and using that extra time to follow these ten steps - 1. Find a quiet corner of your home (even the bathroom!) 2. Use that quiet corner to settle your attention to each breath as it comes in through your nose, and out through your lips 3. Adopt a sense of curiosity to each breath, and just notice it. 4. Don’t feel you need to change the natural rhythm, you are simply using each breath as an anchor to the present moment 5. If your mind starts to wander, that is okay, just bring it back to your breathing. 6. If you notice strong emotions rising up, just acknowledge them, and return your focus to your breathing. 7. The more you can gain a sense of distance from your thoughts and emotions, the more choice you will have over how to respond to them 8. As you notice each breath you will start to calm your mind and body, and thus helps to reduce the cortisol levels in your body (the stress hormone). 9. Studies show that the long-term build up of cortisol is responsible for heart disease, weight gain, high blood pressure, and a greater risk of a stroke. 10. Repeat this process as many times as you need, so you fill the whole of that extra 10 minutes you have given yourself. Chris Warren-Dickins Psychotherapist and author of Beyond the Blue and Beyond Your Confines #BeyondYourConfines 
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Beyond the reach of words - Trauma7/1/2022 We register trauma in our body before we find the words to express it. In the words of Bessel van der Kolk, we understand trauma to be a “speechless horror”. If we can register trauma in our body, we can learn to heal through the use of our body. We can learn to sense safety, and we can distinguish the past trauma from present reality. At first, this might seem scary. Our body might once have been a place of danger, shame, or bewilderment. But in time, with the help of an experienced therapist, we can learn to trust those internal cues that help us to become regulated again. When a therapist helps us to learn about our body, we learn about our triune brain. We learn that we have the neocortex (cognitive), mammalian (emotional), and reptilian (sensorimotor or body) brain, and this can help us to learn why we think, feel and act as we do. With this deeper level of knowledge, we can learn to regulate our responses to triggers in our environment, whether that is the sound of a slammed door or the face of an angry colleague. When we learn about our body with a therapist, we also understand that our responses are a matter of survival or protection, not a matter of dysfunction or weakness. Shame or pathology has no part in a trauma-informed approach. With the right help, it is possible to get Beyond the Blue of your trauma. Chris Warren-Dickins Psychotherapist and author of Beyond the Blue and Beyond Your Confines #BeyondYourConfines  Chris
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